In severe cases of addiction there are many steps that need to be taken to get the appropriate level of help. In some of these cases, a family intervention might be necessary to allow your friend or family member to understand how their addiction is hurting the people around them and more importantly to show that they will be supported through this crisis. Before you go forward with this procedure it’s especially important to get all of your facts straight and take the appropriate actions so that this helps and doesn’t further hinder the recovery.
Understand What An Intervention Is
The first thing you’ve got to do once you decide that you want to stage an intervention for a loved one is to get as much information on the subject as possible. You must understand how you’re going to go about it, why it’s necessary and what to do in order to get the best results. The Mayo Clinic Writes:
An intervention presents your loved one a structured opportunity to make changes before things get even worse.
You can find plenty of information regarding this activity online, in books, or by speaking to professionals at rehabilitation clinics all over the world.
Prepare A Team
Once you know what you’ve got to do and how to do it, you should prepare a team of people that you know and trust, and who share a close or specific bond with the friend or family member that you’re trying to help. Sometimes you may not agree with the opinions of everybody who ends up in this group together, but you have to remember that this process isn’t about your wants or needs, it’s about getting help for your loved one. You also need to be certain that everybody involved is willing to go the distance and stand up for what they believe, even if it upsets the addicted personality. Dr. Phil explains:
Get concerned people around who will help. Each person has to be willing to look the addict in the eye and say, “You have a problem, and you need help.” If one person feels uncomfortable about that, you’ve got a weak link who should not be involved in the process.
This doesn’t mean that everybody who gets involved has to be completely cold and hard at the intervention, but they have to be willing to hold firm to their resolve.
Talk To A Professional
It’s important to know that you’re not in this all on your own and also to apply the appropriate techniques required. This might mean speaking to a professional and maybe even getting somebody from a recovery clinic involved in the procedure. It can really help to have somebody who’s been through this before there to guide you and take charge if things get out of control. Krisha McCoy, MS, of Everyday Health advises:
This professional can help you decide whether you should stage an intervention, how to go about it, and if you do, will likely attend the intervention to help guide you through it.
This extra help can also aid in making it known just how serious you all are about wanting your loved one to get healthy. Having an outside perspective often helps to add some reinforcement to the situation.
Set Limits And Enforce Them
Finally, once you’ve set the ground work for your intervention you’ve got to be convinced enough to go through with everything you’ve set your mind to. This can be a lot harder than it sounds once you’re in a small room with your loved one and emotions are running high. There can be tears, anger, sadness, and many other emotional responses to cope with.