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Helping A Loved One By Planning An Intervention


If a friend or loved one is having a hard time dealing with addiction, to the point that the substance the person is addicted to has been impossible for them to quite, you may need to take action quickly, and arrange an intervention. We learn from that,

Any self-destructive behavior can be addressed in an intervention: alcoholism, alcohol abuse, alcohol addiction, drug abuse, drug addiction, gambling, sex addiction, eating disorders, computer addiction, internet addiction and any other self-destructive behavior.

If the person’s inability to quit using is having a drastic effect on his health and other people’s lives, an intervention is the best possible route to take to deal with the problem in a productive way. But you should be cautious, though, since the person you are trying so hard to help may be offended by it, and may see it as an invasion rather than a sincere concern on your part.

Call the Professionals

The Mayo Clinic Staff tells us that,

People who struggle with addictive behaviors are often in denial about their situation or are unwilling to seek treatment. Often they don’t recognize the negative effects their behavior has on themselves and others. An intervention presents your loved one a structured opportunity to make changes before things get even worse.

Before taking any steps on your own, the first thing you should do to help a person quit drugs with the use of an intervention is to contact a drug treatment professional. You should find one with a track record of successful interventions. Many times, the hardest drug for a person to quit is the dependence itself, and you will want help from someone with professional skills when it comes to getting through to a person who must know better than to stay within the confines of the addiction. Next, make a list of all the person’s close friends and relatives, make known to them your plans, and arrange a meeting to discuss and plan the actual intervention.

With the help of an intervention counselor, talk among yourselves about the best way to approach the person in an attempt to help him find a way off drugs. If the addict has a long-standing condition, the substance he is on may be really hard to shake off, even if it isn’t the toughest drug to quit. The counselor will usually be the one to moderate the actual intervention, and everyone will do their part by expressing to the person their concerns about his drug problem.

Arrange a Time

Dr. Phil says,

Remember that arguments are a comfort zone for a person on drugs because it allows him/her to stay in denial. Bring it to a head by giving him/her a choice to get treatment, or face the undesirable alternative, such as jail, getting kicked out of the house, having no contact with family, etc.

After you have tried to best cover all the possible angles surrounding the intervention, arrange a specific time and place for it. Try to plan a time when you think the person may be sober, and have it in a location that is conducive for such an activity. Be prepared for the idea that the person may be taken aback at your drastic attempt to help him quit drugs, and will likely hesitate to respond to your efforts. The best thing you can do is to be patient, state the problem in the sincerest, most loving manner you can, and let the person know that the problem is not only affecting him, but also the loved ones around him. The most important thing is to do your part, by trying to do something about his addiction.

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